Tough Times Teaches Us Lot

 

On a one nice evening, I was alone in my room, having black coffee, while sitting in the balcony. Just grazing through outside,I saw a big bird in the nest along with few smaller one, big one seems to be mother and to my amazement, she has pushed one of her child from the nest and i was like how cruel mother is she, but then the baby bird flap his wings and starts to fly. After one round, baby bird lands back to the nest and start eating the food.

I was so amazed with that pictures and realised that our life's are also like this only.We hesitated in doing new things that come across but once we learn how to do it, we start enjoying it and gives our best to achieve it. Learning is very much important to everyone. we start learning from the day we born,and need to be continued till our last breath.

We learn most during the toughest time we face, in our life. When everything is going smooth, like a fairy tale and there is nothing to learn as situation doesn't force us to do so.
As bird learn to fly only when get pushed, similarly when situation pushes us, we learn, not only about the way to solve the problem, but about our strength or skill

People don't want to have problem in their life's but according to me, if we don't face problems, we will never learn the hidden strength of ourselves. 
Unless you don't  face it , you will never overcome it.
When people are pushed to their extremes only then they realise their real strength. Every Athletes has to go through this type  of training so that their real strength comes out.

People start complaining whenever they face problem, and tries to escape it rather than solving it. but people forgets one simple rule, we cannot be escape for longer period of time.
At one moment in life, we have to face it and solve it to move further. In doing so, we learn about various things around us including about ourselves as well.

We believe that praying to god, will solve all our problem, but it is GOD, who has put us in such situation so that we come out of it by learning something. so, praying to GOD is bit ironical over here.

Diamond also forms in similar manner from coal. Coal's has carbon atoms which has to be rearranged to form the diamond,this can only be possible when coal is pressurised at high temperature,
and GOD wants their every child to become diamond and hence, put us in such drastic condition. but GOD is also smarter so he gives us problem only when he knows that we can solve it and learn from it.

This process is not a one time process, continuous refinement is always needed, so we face problem time to time. Once we solve that problem, we learn something that enhance our life and will remember it for life time.

So Never discourage or get upset when you face problem, try to confront it and solve it. Everyone has ability to solve every problem it just how much we are dedicated to solve it.
In the event of solving problem, we will learn, which helps us to grow in our life what we call as "Experience"

So Be Happy that we have problems, so that we learn and comes out stronger every time.